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Q. My son
has a serious gambling problem. He says if I pay off his debts he
won't gamble anymore but he always returns. Am I doing the right
thing?
A. Giving money to a problem gambler is like giving drugs to a drug
addict. It doesn't work. Make an appointment and speak with one
of our counsellors to find out what is helpful and what is not or
ask about our 2 day family workshop to learn more about the do's
and don'ts.
Q. How long
does it take to see a counsellor and how much does it cost?
A. Usually a client can be seen within seven days and since our
treatment program is funded by the Ontario Substance Abuse Bureau,
there is no fee for our services.
When people
ask me what kind of work I do, I tell them I am a gambling counsellor.
They often laugh. Are they being rude? Insensitive? Yes they are.
Is their insensitivity and rudeness malicious? NO!
I prefer to think their laughter stems from ignorance. Ignorance
of the winning, losing and desperation phases that compulsive gamblers
and their families descend into.
This morning I read an article about the bank manager who admitted
to employee theft in excess of 1 million dollars. She is one of
many who had access to the money necessary to feed the addiction.
When I tell people that the addiction is not about money, they give
me a puzzled look. My clients come to understand. Through education
and treatment, our clients lose their ignorance and accept that
they have a recognized treatable illness, not a financial problem.
This newsletter is going to educate people. Education beats ignorance.
Louise Barrière, B.SW., C.G.C.
Gambling Counselor
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